One of my favorite quotes is from Studs Terkel, author of “Working”. He said, “Most people are in jobs that are too small for their souls. They don’t want to work for a company, they want to work for a cause that transcends the dullness of their everyday lives.”
Back in the 1980s when he wrote that, life was much simpler. I believe that fewer people today would say their lives are dull. I DO believe that many may confess they are searching for more meaningful days or the opportunity to pursue the dreams they’ve kept on the back burner for far too long.
So if you’re one of them or live or work with people who’ve complained of that void, be proactive in helping to raise the (emotional) tide in your neighborhood.
When you make an effort to improve the quality of your life or the lives of those around you, the world becomes a much brighter, happier place. Don’t be an uninterested bystander. You can make a difference. You do make a difference. Go make one.
Here are some things you can implement right away to help them (or you) bring more meaning and joy into their lives.
1. Identify (or revisit) your core values
When you take the time to articulate what is truly important to you, it brings them to consciousness. Your brain will then start looking for opportunities to make them more present in your life.
2. Talk to the people around you about what’s important to you and what matters most to them.
People are sometimes hesitant to talk about what’s in their heart, feeling it’s too personal to reveal. Yet, its in the revelation of those important matters that creates bonds with others and allows us to feel we’re part of a community. Even if the people around you value something quite different from you, you will gain insight into their behavior and motivations and perhaps even appreciate them more.
3. Take a class on a topic you’ve been interested in
This might be on a topic that will benefit you personally or professionally. I believe it’s important for our hearts and minds to be at work on issues that stimulate and inspire us.
The cells in our body are designed to grow and multiply. Our ideas should as well.
4. Hire a mentor or coach
If you look at the most successful athletes, they all have a coach. Our own talents can take us so far. And let’s face it, sometimes our human need for the safety of homeostasis, keeps us from making the progress we should. Sometimes you need an outside perspective to see your career or business in a new light. Sometimes you need a swift kick in the pants from someone who is committed more to your success than your comfort.
5. See the best in others and shine a light on it
Everyone has dark days at times. Some people wallow in them. When you make an effort to see the people around you as more capable than they see themselves, their performance will rise to meet your expectations. When you see and encourage the light in others, the world becomes a brighter place.
Take this 5 actions to heart. Practice them regularly and let a brighter future unfold.